Playful Wisdom is an educational platform that helps parents go from confused and struggling with their parenting, to empowered with curiosity and connected with their children.

 

Being a parent is no easy task, and it often feels thankless.


Playful Wisdom offers real-world guidance to help you develop that inner know-how.

So that you know what to do when you don’t know what to do.

We have found that knowledge in a few areas (neuroscience, attachment, child development, & play) can make parenting easier and bring back the

joy of being a parent!

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Welcome

Play~Connect~Empower

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Lately, you’ve been feeling burnt-out on parenting. It feels like you’ve tried everything and you’ve just hit a wall. One day you visit the park with your child and you see a little one who is on the verge of a major meltdown. You immediately feel for the parent as they kneel down trying to alleviate the situation, you have been there and you know the disaster that’s coming. But then with a touch, a look, and a short conversation the child is suddenly back, happily playing again.

 

You are in shock. What is their secret?! What are you missing?

You love your child deeply, but you feel like you don’t enjoy parenting anymore, what happened? You've committed so much time and energy to finding the perfect tool or strategy for your child. You're exhausted. Now, you find yourself searching for the courage to find more to this parenting thing than frustration and struggle.

 
 
You're ready for a change…

 

You’re tired of feeling isolated, overwhelmed, inadequate, and ashamed that you can’t figure out how to parent your child. But you’re dedicated to learning about your child and their needs.

 

You need information that fits with your schedule, a researched-based framework, that is child development focused, conscious about connection and relationship, and accounts for whole-child wellness from someone who lives it. 

 

You crave connection with other like-minded parents. You recognize the importance of those relationships in helping you raise a resilient child while empowering you as a parent to find joy again.

 

You’re looking for a professional who not only has the information you need, you know they have been in the trenches with you. Someone who can simplify, encourage, and help you bring joy to parenting.

 

You’re ready...to learn to connect, to bring joy back to your parenting. You’re ready to decrease the power struggles. You’re ready to learn to parent YOUR child’s unique needs. You’re ready to feel more confident in your relationship with your child.

Because of the love you have for your child, you already

  • Know the relationship with your child is important

  • Are curious about what to do next, because you know there is more

  • Are ready to experience a play-filled parenting connection

  • But somewhere along the way, you hit a wall and ...

  • Realized you cannot parent alone

  • Started yelling, rather than talking

  • Began correcting instantly, rather than connecting

  • Found it hard to be authentic

  • Now you’re overwhelmed and feel like giving up

  • Playful Wisdom isn’t:

     

    • A typical group. This is a community of seasoned professionals and parents here to help parents like you along your parenting journey by incorporating sound research and personal experience into relatable and relative training. 

    • A magic wand or a “quick fix” that will magically fix every problem or challenge you are facing with your child. Building connections and relationships take work, patience, and curiosity.

    • A place to shame other parent’s for their decisions, mistakes, or failures. Everyone has challenges and focusing on these produces a culture of shame.

    • A guide to parent survival; we seek to help you thrive instead. To bring the joy back to your parenting. To learn the language of play, the neuroscience of the brain-body connection, and to learn the value of presence.

    Playful Wisdom is: 

    • A safe space to learn and grow as a parent and family unit. 

    • Focused on the relationship and connectivity between the parent and child.

    • Developed by a collective of highly-trained child & family therapists who every day empower parents to be the greatest resource for helping their child overcome difficulties.

    • We also recognized the lack of sound resources and guidance available for parents when it comes to parenting the whole child- emotional, mental, social, physical.

    • An on-demand program for parents to get the information they are curious about and can trust in its guidance.

    • A place where parents can find community and learn from others who have faced similar challenges, believe in children being human deserving of respect and opportunity to grow in whole health.

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    Benefits & Features

    When you join the Playful Wisdom Parenting community you will:​

    Learn how your parenting blueprint is impacting the way, you parent.

    1. Know what experts in the field are discovering about how a child develops (neuroscience, brain development, & sensory systems). Learn to identify and parent to these primitive systems. 

    2. Learn how ALL behavior is communication and with connection, unwanted behaviors can improve. Using curiosity and relationship as your guide.

    3. Parent playfully to increase connection & strengthen the parent-child relationship.

    4. Foster empathy and compassion to challenge shame dynamics. 

    5. A breakdown of each session can be found here

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    When you sign-up for Playful Wisdom Courses you will find:

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    "Cary is a phenomenal educator & trainer on playful techniques to build relationships, on child emotional wellness & healthy development. You will learn more in one hour with Cary, then whole classes from other experts. If you get a chance to hear Cary speak you will walk away knowing more about you as a parent & the power Play in parenting."

    - Sarah

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    Knowledge

    Founded in neuroscience research and child development from Licensed Mental Health clinicians who are specially trained in child attachment, sensory regulation, and brain-based practices of speaking a child’s language and translating this knowledge to parents. Sharing our secrets for mental wellness and 

    prevention

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    Connection

    To know belonging, where you can come as you are, give and receive support with others who share their lived experience, grow, and develop connected relationships with your child by learning the power of play.

     

    Connection is at the core of being human and feeling it allows us to be vulnerable and brave in our parenting.

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    Curiosity

    Learn how curiosity fosters connection, decreases conflicts, and strengthens your parent-child bond. These courses will challenge you to shift your thinking about parenting. Give you resources and skills to develop a relationship that grows your child’s brain and regulates calm. Increasing your resilience as a parent and increasing communication with your child. Curiosity opens doors and allows for learning, healing, and wellness to be present.

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    Hope

    There is hope for you to become the parent you have always wanted to be. These courses acknowledge the depth of learning and practice that parenting takes to raise healthy humans. 

     

    This community acknowledges how incredibly difficult this parenting experience can be while at the same time believing struggle is a part of the journey, not the final destination. 

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    Empowerment 

    This is where you can find the knowledge to rise above the chaos of the day-to-day strains. To gain clarity on the type of parent you want to be for your child, and to use 

    those strengths to empower your family towards wellness.

    We want to guide you in having the forever skills to rely on no matter your child's age.

    This parenting community has options

    to best fit your needs.

    First is our Foundations course that introduces you to the basic knowledge of how to be a playful wisdom parent. The education and knowledge for you to gain perspective and learning on the brain, the body, connection, and play concepts as they apply to parenting. You can take this course at your pace as it is all online with short videos to cover the learning of each lesson. Followed by worksheets to apply your skills learned.

    Second, you will gain access to our Facebook community where you have Q &A sessions with one of our Playful Wisdom curators to apply the skills learned in each lesson to your specific child and parenting needs. 

    Third, you can have 1:1 sessions with our Playful Wisdom Curators to get even more in-depth parent coaching specific to your pain points, stuck moments, and managing your child’s and self-expectations to the changes as you implement the Playful Wisdom Parenting model. Sometimes as the parent you just need a fresh perspective to point you in the right direction.

    Fourth, Gain access to our library of Parenting Seminars & Connect with other Playful Wisdom parents.

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    Playful Wisdom Curators

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    Cary
    Hamilton

    Mother & Creator 

    My passion is to empower parents to connect with their children to build healthy families. I love seeing parents enjoy parenting again and see their confidence build. Whole family wellness is my wish for all families

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    Sarah
    Moran

    Curator & Play Expert

    All children seek connection and belonging with others. Children's experiences matter and I love helping children feel seen and heard by the important people in their lives. 

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    Mother & Curator

    Parents and children are doing their best, even when it's tough, and I love connecting with them through compassionate presence and belief in their ability to grow and heal. 

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    Kaitlyn
    Texley

    Mother & Creator

    Giving birth doesn't suddenly enable you to be the parent that you've always wanted to be. Our children have an incredible way of showing us where we need work. My children have taught me more about myself than I ever expected.

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    Is this where you belong?

    This parenting community is for you if:

    1. You’re the parent or primary caregiver of a child with challenging behaviors.

    2. You’re looking to grow in your knowledge of child development, sensory sensitivities, and the neuroscience of the brain-body connections, proven to develop healthy humans.

    3. You are searching for support that does not just address your child’s challenges but sees YOU and your needs in this two-sided equation.

    4. Parents who strive to be flexible, adaptable, brave, resourceful, curious, and inclusive to those around them. 

    5. You’re ready for personal growth as an individual and as a parent. You’re open to reflection, introspection, and shifting your perspective.

    6. You want to ensure your whole child is being nurtured, including their emotional mental well being.

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    This Parenting community is NOT for you if:

    1. You are not the parent or primary caregiver.

    2. You’re looking for a “quick fix” for your child or for yourself.

    3. You’re seeking a platform to vent your frustrations without any interest in investing your time and energy in making positive changes within yourself or within your relationship with your child.

    4. You are not open to viewing your child’s challenging behaviors as a symptom of being human, rather than intentional and willful defiance.

    5. You are looking for a place to ask members about their child’s experience with medications or various treatments. This is outside the scope of this parenting community.

    Our Foundations Course has 

    Launched!

    Curious to know more?

    We are excited to support you on your Parenting adventure!

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    Knowledge

    Neuroscience & Education

    As parents, we know life is crazy right now & 

    burnout is feeling real.

    We are here to support & help you to gain back some

    resiliency by making parenting

    JOY-filled again.

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    Let us support & grow your parenting knowledge with researched & practical information & strategies that will work for you & your family.

    Frequently asked questions

    OSTEOARTHRITIS


    MFR decreases tightness of tissues surrounding joints to alleviate pressure and compression in the joint. This can relieve pain, improve mobility of the joint, and prevent further wearing away of the cartilage.




    PELVIC PAIN


    MFR decreases tightness of tissues surrounding the pelvic and abdominal areas to eliminate symptoms.




    PLANTAR FASCITIS


    MFR decreases tightness in the tissues of the leg and bottom of the foot to restore proper alignment of the hip bones and bones of the feet to enable pain-free walking.




    PUDENDAL NERVE ENTRAPMENT


    By providing gentle, sustained hands-on stretching into the areas of fascial restriction, Myofascial Release can restore the necessary slack to the system to take the pressure off of the pudendal nerve. This helps to eliminate pain and improve the ability to sit, engage in intercourse, and maintain continence.




    SCARS (HYPERTROPHIC, HYPERSENSITIVE, PAINFUL, BURN SCARS, MASTECTOMY SCARS)


    MFR decreases tightness of scar tissue to alleviate pain, restore normal sensation, and decrease thickness of scar tissue.




    SCIATICA


    MFR decreases tightness and spasm in the tissues surrounding the low back and bones of the spine to decrease compression of nerves and restore optimal postural alignment to eliminate symptoms.




    SCOLIOSIS


    MFR decreases tightness of tissues surrounding the spine and pelvis to restore proper alignment of the hip bones and bones of the spine. This decreases symptoms, improves posture, and restores even leg length.




    SHIN SPLINTS


    MFR decreases tightness and fascial restrictions of the tissues in the shins and legs to alleviate symptoms and prevent recurrence with future physical activity.




    TENNIS ELBOW


    MFR decreases tightness of tissue and muscles in the forearm surrounding the elbow to alleviate symptoms.




    TINNITUS (RINGING OF THE EARS)


    MFR decreases tightness of tissues of the head, face, and ear canal to restore proper alignment of the bones of the head and aid in draining fluid in the ear.




    TMJ SYNDROME


    MFR decreases tightness in the tissues surrounding the jaw and mouth, eliminates pain and grinding, and restores optimal postural alignment to allow the jaw to work properly and smoothly




    TRIGEMINAL NEURALGIA


    MFR decreases tightness in the tissues and fascia of the face and head to decrease compression of the nerve and resolve symptoms.




    WHIPLASH


    MFR decreases tightness and spasm of the muscles in the neck to restore mobility of the neck and eliminate pain.




    STRESS & ANXIETY






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    Hope to see you soon!

    Warm Regards,

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    The information contained on this site, blog posts, videos and interviews are for general education purposes and do not constitute professional advice. If you are a provider, it’s important to seek training, continuing education or clinical supervision. If you are a parent, I encourage you to seek direct help from a qualified provider for your child and family. All identifying information, including names and other details, has been changed to protect the privacy of individuals. *The photos used are stock photography models and do not represent specific individuals in any way.